Saturday 22 May 2010

Communication Confidence

http://www.articlesbase.com/videos/5min/170714567

TED.com

http://www.ted.com/talks/adora_svitak.html
 http://www.ted.com/talks/srikumar_rao_plug_into_your_hard_wired_happiness.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/james_cameron_before_avatar_a_curious_boy.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/daniel_kahneman_the_riddle_of_experience_vs_memory.html
 http://www.ted.com/talks/pawan_sinha_on_how_brains_learn_to_see.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/taylor_mali_what_teachers_make.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/kiran_bir_sethi_teaches_kids_to_take_charge.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/dan_buettner_how_to_live_to_be_100.html

Wednesday 12 May 2010

A beginner's guide to meditation

by Sarah McColl, Shine staff, on Wed Mar 17, 2010 8:07am PDT
Walking meditation
If you find that sitting still makes you antsy and anxious, a walking meditation might be more your bag. Instead of trying to still your brain chatter, you give your mind a point of focus --- in this case, walking --- that helps you to be more present in the moment and in your body. Go outside and give yourself 20 minutes. Begin walking at a normal pace, but focus your attention on the physical sensations: feel your feet strike the ground and roll to the toes, notice the way your arms and hips swing. Do a body scan by bringing your attention from the feet to the ankles up through every part of your body to the top of your head. As you notice any tension in the body, breathe awareness into it and then let it go. When your mind wonders to the sights around you, gently guide your focus back to sensations of walking. Don't get frustrated -- you may have to do this dozens of times, but that's part of the practice.


Active meditation

Truly, any activity can be a meditation as long as we bring a focus of mindfulness to it. What does that mean? It means being utterly in the moment while you're washing the dishes, brushing your teeth, or taking a shower. Use all your senses to keep your mind focused on the the task at hand: feel the warm sudsy water in the sink, notice the color of the soap as you squeeze it onto the sponge; be aware of the way the shampoo smells, how the toothbrush feels in your hand, or the sensation of the hot water hitting your back and shoulders. As you do this, try to keep your focus soft and diffuse, rather than lasering in on one thing. Bringing this kind of attention into small moments throughout the day is a challenge, but it brings with it a deep sense of peace.

Sunday 2 May 2010

Happiness may protect against heart disease


Feb. 21, 2010
Courtesy European Society of Cardiology
and World Science staff
Peo­ple who are usu­ally hap­py, en­thu­si­as­tic and con­tent are less likely than oth­ers to de­vel­op heart ill­ness, ac­cord­ing to a new stu­dy.

The scientists involved say the stu­dy, pub­lished in the Eu­ro­pe­an Heart Jour­nal, is the first to show an in­de­pend­ent rela­t­ion­ship be­tween pos­i­tive emo­tions and cor­o­nary heart dis­ease, the most com­mon type of heart di­sease. Pre­vi­ous stud­ies had linked hap­pi­ness with long life, but the ex­act rea­sons for that as­socia­t­ion are un­cer­tain.

Ka­rina Da­vid­son of Co­lum­bia Uni­vers­ity Med­i­cal Cen­ter in New York, who led the new stu­dy, said it sug­gests heart dis­ease might be in some de­gree pre­venta­ble through pos­i­tive emo­tions. But it would be prem­a­ture to make clin­i­cal rec­om­menda­t­ions with­out fur­ther stu­dy, she added.

“We des­pe­r­ately need rig­or­ous clin­i­cal tri­als in this ar­ea. If the tri­als sup­port our find­ings, then these re­sults will be in­credibly im­por­tant in de­scrib­ing spe­cif­ic­ally what clin­i­cians and/or pa­tients could do to im­prove health,” said Da­vid­son, who di­rects Co­lum­bi­a’s Cen­ter for Be­hav­ior­al Car­di­o­vas­cu­lar Health.

Over 10 years, Da­vid­son and col­leagues tracked 1,739 healthy adults, split about evenly be­tween men and wom­en, par­ti­ci­pat­ing in a study known as the 1995 No­va Sco­tia Health Sur­vey. At the start, trained nurses as­sessed the par­ti­ci­pants’ risk of heart dis­ease and, with both self-reporting and clin­i­cal as­sess­ment, they meas­ured symp­toms of de­pres­sion, hos­til­ity, anx­i­e­ty and the de­gree of ex­pres­sion of pos­i­tive emo­tions, which is known as “pos­i­tive af­fec­t.”

Pos­i­tive af­fect is de­fined as the ex­pe­ri­ence of pleas­ur­a­ble emo­tions such as joy, hap­pi­ness, ex­cite­ment, en­thu­si­asm and con­tentment. These feel­ings can be tran­sient, but they are usu­ally sta­ble and trait-like, par­tic­u­larly in adult­hood, ac­cord­ing to re­search­ers. Pos­i­tive af­fect is largely in­de­pend­ent of neg­a­tive af­fect, so that some­one who is gen­er­ally a hap­py, con­tented pe­r­son can al­so be oc­ca­sion­ally anx­ious, an­gry or de­pressed.

Af­ter tak­ing ac­count of age, sex, car­di­o­vas­cu­lar risk fac­tors and neg­a­tive emo­tions, the sci­en­tists found that in­creased pos­i­tive af­fect pre­dicted less risk of heart dis­ease by 22 per­cent per point on a five-point scale meas­ur­ing lev­els of pos­i­tive af­fect ex­pres­sion. “We al­so found that if some­one, who was usu­ally pos­i­tive, had some de­pres­sive symp­toms at the time of the sur­vey, this did not af­fect their over­all low­er risk of heart dis­ease,” Da­vid­son said. “As far as we know, this is the first pro­spec­tive study to ex­am­ine the rela­t­ion­ship be­tween clin­ic­ally-as­sessed pos­i­tive af­fect and heart dis­ease.”

“We have sev­er­al pos­si­ble ex­plana­t­ions” for the ef­fect, said Da­vid­son. “First, those with pos­i­tive af­fect may have long­er pe­riods of rest or re­laxa­t­ion phys­i­o­logic­al­ly,” mak­ing their bod­ies bet­ter able to reg­u­late blood pres­sure and heart rate. “Sec­ond, those with pos­i­tive af­fect may re­cov­er more quickly from stres­sors, and may not spend as much time ‘re-living’ them, which in turn seems to cause phys­i­o­log­ical dam­age. This is spec­u­la­tive, as we are just be­gin­ning to ex­plore why pos­i­tive emo­tions and hap­pi­ness have pos­i­tive health ben­e­fits.”

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